Today I am Loving {51a}

When you are having an evening of the catch-up kind,

and after you dig through the heart things but before you go over the mind things  you run to the store to get a spontaneous treat,

and as you dish it up you say "are we going to be ladylike?" 

and the good-for-the-soul friend says,
"I don't feel the need to be ladylike at all"

and hence, you divvy, and devour.