Monday, January 16, 2012

Family Historicity

So, I told you that my great-grandfather worked in the silk mills, but I didn't tell you what he did.

This oversight on my part potentially allows you to know how I felt for many years, since up until a little while ago that was all I knew.  Until, that is, an extended family member gave us this book
and blew us all away.  
Full of  fabric samples
and elaborate sketches,
the book was my great-grandfather's scrapbook of all of his designs.

That's right, he designed the silk that was manufactured there,
which is completely different from what I pictured over the years, when family members would mention that he 'worked in the silk mills'.  I always--with a child's penchant for romance, and a misunderstanding of which side of the family we were talking about--imagined him hauling coal or some other grunt work like that.  

Turns out, however, that the man was a silk designing genius.
 If we return to the museum (and the genius of Marlo's explanations) we see this machine that punched the design cards,
the first draft of which you see in 'the book',
and the final product of which you see hanging to the right here.

The design was marked on the cards, 
the cards were punched, put into the machine , and
voila, historicity.

Of the family kind.

Monday, January 9, 2012

Historicity

Recently I was talking with a friend about my 'hometown' of Paterson.  Fiercely in my bones, Paterson defined my childhood; my conversation with said friend, however, revealed that I knew very little about it.  I felt--just a bit--like a fraud.  Upon arriving in NJ for Christmas I mentioned this to my father, who had some vacation days to make up.  The rest, as they say, is History.

Our first stop was Lambert Castle on the day after Christmas.
Paterson was home to the silk trade, and this castle was built as a home to one of its barons in the late 1800s.  
Designed to also be a home to his art collection,
room after room sprawled before us 
as we meandered through,
imagining what life must have been like when its owner meandered there as well.
This guy was no particular help in our quest, 
just a part of the Christmas trees and displays sprawled throughout the house as we went.

Some of my favorite discoveries:
This tree,
these antlers,
this chandelier,
this old Paterson made piano,
this view,
and this rotunda.

A few days later found my dad and I at the Paterson museum.
Paterson was a planned industrial city, where many goods were invented, improved, and produced.  The city can boast of silk production, locomotive production, plane engine production, submarine production, and Colt revolver production to name the most prominent.
Since my great-grandfather worked in the silk mills, I was particularly interested in the workings of that trade.  [What I learned was so interesting that I've decided to make it its own post--more to come!]
Brimming with information (helped along--apparently--by having worked in every building in the city, since at nearly every display he said something along the lines of 'oh, yeah, I worked in that building'), Marlo deftly explained the workings of the machines used in said silk trade,
the plane engines manufactured at--yes--a building he had worked in,
and the first submarine.
When we'd had our fill of all the museum had to tell us, we headed outside to one of the locomotives built in Paterson and used to build the Panama Canal.
There, a very nice man took our picture.
[A picture, I might point out, that solidifies once and for all my personal history: Yup, I'm his daughter.]
Next, we went across the street to Paterson's famed Great Falls, the source of its industrial power and the reason that Alexander Hamilton envisioned a thriving city in the first place.

When we were done exploring all the falls had to offer us [more to come on that too...], we hopped in the truck and my very own tour guide showed me around the city.  We found the district of old beautiful houses, built with Spanish tiled roofs and leaded glass windows.  And then, we found a house that had particular meaning in our own history:
the house my grandparents lived in until I was four.
Pastor of a city church, my grandparents lived in this parsonage just off of Broadway,
and I spent many pleasant hours in this backyard, being thrown in the air in a blanket by my young and very fun aunts.

We drove home, past the church where I spent many a childhood Sunday enraptured by the black gospel piano playing and singing that occurred there, enchanted by my very own grandfather standing in the pulpit, love for him oozing out of every pore of the people in the pews.  I marveled at how small the building is now, since in my four year old mind it stands large and looming.  I tried to take a picture, but all I got was blur.  I thought, 'perhaps it's for the best'--sometimes historicity is better remembered the way we remember it, and not the way it is today.

Regardless of the changes that time brings, I can--having made my historific tour of this place brimming with all kinds of historicity--claim without question my rightful heritage as a child of Paterson!

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Family Adventures

Let there be no mistake: I live a life of luxury.  My academic calendar provides me with lovely stretches of days  off, and I am spoiled beyond belief.  That would be why it was easy for me to take a week to stay in NJ, where adventures awaited with members of my extended family.
One of those adventures took place in front of this restroom
inside of this movie theater
where we had sectioned off a row for ourselves in order to be entertained by Sherlock Holmes and his trusty Dr. Watson.  

Entertained we were.
[Perhaps by more than the movie...]

Since our adventures seem to turn out well, 
a few nights later found some of us spontaneously together again,
at Bobby's Burger Palace in nearby Paramus.
Ever since I found out that Bobby Flay has an establishment near my parent's home, I've been itching to get there.  I was not disappointed: Hello goat cheese and watercress on my burger, sweet potato in my fries, and pistachio in my shake...
YUM.

Speaking of yum,
afterward we roamed the attached mall,
while the men scored themselves a seat 
and had themselves a chat.

At the end of the night we hugged each other good-bye,
sadly, but with the knowledge that
all adventures [and all togetherness] must come to an end...
until next time!

Monday, January 2, 2012

Christmas Type Togetherness

Imagine the noise associated with this roomful of people and you will be on your way to experiencing my Christmas Eve family togetherness.

 
Starting the celebrations out at my aunt's house,
we munched on yummy treats and passed out gifts in the midst of our laughter and chatter.

Somehow the chaos that seems to surround our togetherness made way for we girls to gather around Grandma
and to open these toasty slippers,
which she had knitted for us with love.
(Though Daniela didn't get a pair of her own,
she agreed with us that they were pretty great...)
Before we knew it, it was time to head out for our exclusive Kooistra Christmas Togetherness over at mom & dad's house, where many more goodies and many more packages awaited us.
In front of the cozy fire and the pretty tree, 
we gifted each other with love
 
and remarked on the fact that we have acquired the sweetest baby as well as the sweetest dog since this time last year.

The night went quickly and before we knew it Keith and Marisa took Daniela home, it was Christmas Day, and there were stockings to be opened.
Digby (of the Dave & Kara Kooistras) learned all about Kooistra Christmas Togetherness as he scoped out this stocking tradition,
and played with his own stocking treasures.
We lounged sleepily with our coffee and pajamas,
remarked on the variety of 'little things' (yet another Kooistra tradition) that get tucked into those stockings by our stocking wizard each year,
and shared in the last moments of our all-too-brief Christmas togetherness before Dave & Kara got on the road for home.  

The rest of the day was spent leisurely
over the lasagna dinner that has somehow become tradition in recent years,
with time for more gifts, more conversation,
and a delicious Christmas nap.

Christmas type togetherness,
you are welcome to return next year!